I lost my niece/nephew and it hurts. SO BAD. But I can only imagine what my sister-in-law and brother are going through. And I'm SO grateful that we have God to lean on. NO, Christianity is not just a crutch for me. It is a passionate, real relationship with my Lord Jesus. But in times of trouble, it's so nice to have Him there, holding you in His arms, telling you it's all going to be ok.
And it is going to be ok, eventually. But we will never forget that little baby. We cannot wait to see him/her in heaven for the first time. What an awesome reunion it will be.
